My friend, I’m going to get straight to the point here.
Women, especially, young, pretty and intelligent women, are hard-wired in their brain, to be ‘experts’ at knowing when a man is trying to ‘pick her up’ or ‘chat her up’…
Now, I’m not talking about social mastery of using the actual Technique of PUA (Pickup Artist), which is a skill and a psychological mastery technique in manipulating a lady, getting into her subconscious mind without her knowing this; that is a different topic of discussion from this blog, which I will explore, in a later blog
No, I’m specifically talking about being a sincere gentleman
Being a gentleman, and developing a connection, to meet, attract and form a relationship that is truly meaningful and loving – to my mind, is far more satisfying and comes from a place of self-esteem, which actually contradicts the whole technique of the PUA (aside from actually having the confidence to learn and employ the PUA technique to approach and communicate with an attractive lady).
If you truly learn to connect with her from a true intention of having real confidence and sincerity in yourself, she will subconsciously feel so much more at ease with you, be likely to develop a sense of trust with you, and, above all, as with the majority of women, feel ‘safe’ and comfortable with you…I cannot stress how important this is when developing a connection with a lady, if she is looking for intimacy and romance with you.
So there you have it
Questions, comments and feedback welcome!