October 5

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Is it all about the ‘Pickup’? Is this in principal, disrespectful to women?

By Kenneth Lim

October 5, 2019

Let’s face it – to an extent, it’s generally understood that there is a Psychology involved, behind attraction to the opposite sex

 

After all, there are enough books written by both male and female international dating and psychology experts on the subject!

 

And….if you are not confident in this area of understanding the female mind psychologically, I would suggest learning this, as it would give you a great headstart to increasing your dating game success

 

Mastering it for the purposes of “picking up a woman” is perfectly okay, provided it is not with the aim to manipulate a woman’s emotions and her feelings, or merely to achieve “conquering her” as if she is nothing more than merely some sort of sexual object

 

Personally, I feel it is disrespectful to make her believe your intentions are serious towards her, and then end up hurting her emotionally because you never had serious intentions towards her in the first place, but lead her to believe so.

 

My view is that, the Art of ‘Picking up’ is harmless enough, when there is clear understanding between yourself and the lady of your affections; as long as she understood exactly where she stood with you on this

 

If she understood you never wanted anything too serious, even if she liked you enough, that this left her disappointed, that is absolutely fine, as you made clear boundaries you were not leading her on emotionally when you didn’t feel that way about her.

 

In this way, the Art of ‘Picking up’ a woman can be a fun, yet perfectly harmless exercise in flirting, with perhaps, a lot more!

Questions, Comments and feedback welcome!

Kenneth Lim

About the author

Spiritual, holistically inclined and on a personal journey of discovery and development. I have embraced the last 30 years learning about myself, developing myself in spiritual enlightenment and awareness, and understanding how to interact with others. I have always been fascinated with observing people too - and my own journey into finding the right soulmate has been a long, and very interesting road, full of personal 'insight' and 'understanding myself' from the 'inside-out', rather than the 'outside-in'. I have always looked to find inner happiness and contentment, and heal myself from within, rather than look for external sources of ways to become happier!

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