WOKE, the ‘Groupthink’ generation and the potential effect on dating attitudes

By Kenneth Lim

March 21, 2020

Okay – it’s time to REALLY have a rant!

In this post, I really do want to speak out on this ‘Groupthink’ mentality which has really come about since the advent of Feminism, the “Snowflake” generation and the WOKE generation (which, for those who don’t understand the term – it refers to being aware of social and racial injustice, and comes from African-American origins – ‘Stay WOKE’)

The SNOWFLAKE generation (for those who are not aware) are young, brainwashed people heavily influenced by Feminism and WOKE, and, subsequently, are so emotionally delicate and fragile; they will lash out with aggression and irrational behaviour at anyone who will even (mildly) disgree with the views that have been imposed on them regarding equality for women, social injustice to women and “equality rights” of the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) group

In terms of how it affects the dating game for us men, especially in the generation of male gentleman who are born in my era of the 1970s or earlier, for the new generation of boys to men, this really has had a profound impact on what it even ‘means to be a straight, heterosexual male’ in this day and age

To my mind,Western society has truly gone mad with this supposed ‘Gender equality’ nonsense – a prime example being the classic advert for ‘real masculine men’ – “Gillette” razors – in this 21st century version, emphasis is made on the fact that ‘Men are BAD’, or the fella who stops another fella admiring a sexy, beautiful young lady to ‘not whistle at a woman’ (what’s the sin in that?!? Okay it’s a little on the ‘chauvinistic side’ but hardly a SIN now?!?)

The Marketing slogan was ‘Gillette – the Best a Man can get’ – so what the heck, is a GILLETTE advert that talks about WOKE issues, equality issues and mentions that a ‘Man is bad’ – all about???

Or, the Church of England encouraging young boys in school to consider coming into school in a skirt….in a skirt for GOODNESS SAKE! (And for that matter, for girls to come in trousers?)

Young boys being introduced to the idea of transgender children is something that, I feel, is quite a ‘controversial’ topic in itself – I believe that young boys should learn to ‘show respect’ and to be educated – that a transgender child ‘may be different’ to them

But what sort of a message does it send out, that, out of respect to a ‘transgender’ child, it’s perfectly acceptable for a (heterosexual) boy to come into school in a skirt? Is this a ‘Pantomime’ or something?!?

For GOODNESS Sake! What sort of a message is that sending out to young (sexually straight) boys about understanding their own sexuality as innocent children?

Are we now supposed to be of the acceptance that role reversal is what this Western society is all about?

I mean

Look – a young boy (for this context) will often know whether sexually they don’t quite feel ‘male’ or have the characteristics of being interested in ‘boy things’ like Action Man or cars etc…

And fair enough, as they grow into adulthood, they will then have their own minds and choice to understand themselves better in which way ‘sexually’ they are geared towards – but to educate them as children that they can come to school in skirts is absolutely crazy – it sends out completely the wrong message that they, feeling straight sexually, can feel ‘no shame’ in being a ‘girly’ straight boy

In terms of how this ‘Groupthink’ and WOKE mentality is affecting our society today, I really do believe men, from a bygone era of old-fashioned gentlemen, have real reason to feel somewhat ‘tentative’ at what could happen when we are dating a potential soulmate, for attitudes we may have, to risk be totally taken out of context by a lady; perhaps finding her ‘sexually attractive’ in a totally gentlemanly way – could be blown out of context far more easily to be interpreted as sexist, chauvinistic and misogynistic

And as these young straight boys mature and grow into sexually straight men, there is a real danger that they may have already been totally brainwashed by their early exposure to the irrational and tyrannical social pressures of ‘Groupthink’, WOKE and the snowflake generation mentality

What are your views on this?

Questions, Comments and feedback welcome

Kenneth Lim

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About the author

Spiritual, holistically inclined and on a personal journey of discovery and development. I have embraced the last 30 years learning about myself, developing myself in spiritual enlightenment and awareness, and understanding how to interact with others. I have always been fascinated with observing people too - and my own journey into finding the right soulmate has been a long, and very interesting road, full of personal 'insight' and 'understanding myself' from the 'inside-out', rather than the 'outside-in'. I have always looked to find inner happiness and contentment, and heal myself from within, rather than look for external sources of ways to become happier!