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Your “Inner Wealth” means far more than your “Outer wealth” to attract genuine love

By Kenneth Lim

November 1, 2019

What does this actually mean, you might be asking?

I will launch straight into it, and say that your ‘inner’ wealth can be explained as your own ‘inner game’ – the strength and security of how you feel about yourself; how positive the relationship you have with YOU – if you are confident and have good self-esteem, that can be ‘internally wealthy’

Your sense of ‘self-worth’ is far more important than the actual outer wealth you may have in your bank account or your material trappings of ‘outer wealth’ (outer success)

Sure – your career and outward success may be very important to you, as is the financial security/comfort you have; naturally, you may already have self-confidence and self-esteem through the success of your career and what you have worked very hard to prove – this is powerful and magnetic to women, when a man can offer that security financially, which can create emotional comfort too

The question I am challenging you to answer for yourself is, do you believe it is all about your ability to show a potential soul mate, that you are attractive purely because you have the trappings of success such as wealth, a fancy sports car and a large house?

Of course, ask any woman and the majority of them would probably say they wouldn’t want a penniless loser – but is outer success and wealth enough to keep a relationship loving and healthy only based on that? Unless you really cannot tell the difference between a woman who is genuinely interested in you for you, or she is merely a gold-digger who is manipulating you

If you truly, I mean, truly believe, that this is the only way to pursue and attract a lady for a serious relationship, via outer showings of material wealth such as your expensive Ferrari or Rolex watch, I would be questioning how much you truly value yourself, how much self-worth you believe you have internally and how much inner security and self-esteem you really have?

Do you really believe that this is what all beautiful and attractive women look for
in a man, in a true soul mate?

Questions, comments and feedback welcome

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Kenneth Lim

About the author

Spiritual, holistically inclined and on a personal journey of discovery and development. I have embraced the last 30 years learning about myself, developing myself in spiritual enlightenment and awareness, and understanding how to interact with others. I have always been fascinated with observing people too - and my own journey into finding the right soulmate has been a long, and very interesting road, full of personal 'insight' and 'understanding myself' from the 'inside-out', rather than the 'outside-in'. I have always looked to find inner happiness and contentment, and heal myself from within, rather than look for external sources of ways to become happier!

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