It’s no secret that many of us are drawn to those individuals who have that ‘charisma’, a way with words and/or the ability to influence others, especially if it is done with a positive and sincere approach
And also, where necessary, to showcase their hidden skills and talents, or open up telling others about it (note: in my experience, it’s great to show confidence and ‘brag’ to an extent, without the need for coming across as a narcissist!)
Learning or having this ability puts you at a distinct advantage, when trying to ‘woo’ or attract a member of the opposite sex in dating and sexual attraction.
Having these dating tools at your disposal, yet being able to hold back from immediately revealing them to an attractive lady you like, and, if she is already
showing interest or is interested in you, will stir or arouse curiosity in her;
even if she has decided she already likes you, this will only enhance her desire, sexual arousal and attraction towards you even more
But it is indeed, very important whilst doing so, to be totally ‘sincere and strictly honorable about your intentions whilst being mysterious’ – she will sense and feel this
Otherwise you are in danger of coming across as Creepy!
Keeping her guessing about you when she is interested, she usually will love this!
And, unfolding the secrets about yourself gradually, bit by bit, is very attractive to her!
So, remember to ‘hold back’ on revealing everything about yourself on your first few dates!
A man of mystery is like ‘Bruce Wayne’ (his alter-ego being the comic vigilante “Batman”), or is why James Bond (007) the British spy and agent, comes across as so appealing to beautiful young women in his movies – the point is, your looks are not the most important thing here; it is more about the ‘mystery’ and the confidence in yourself you portray
What do you think?
Questions, feedback and Comments welcome!