Bars and nightclubs
They are the perfect place for mingling, flirting, getting up-close-and-personal with the opposite sex
As well as being the perfect environment to enjoy a great evening out socialising, and is often a hunting ground for both sexes able to spot the ‘most physically attractive, dressed-to-kill male/female individuals’
Nightclubs and bars are also the perfect environment to build up that sexual tension/excitement and a chance to have no-strings attached opportunities for play-time, which can even lead to voyeurism/adultery
Such places are frequented, especially at weekends, by one or more friends or groups of friends – both male/female “feeling out” each other, dancing in close personal and intimate zones, and is all about the social and fun time on a night out
Whilst it is perfectly possible to meet someone this way, it certainly does not make for an easy way to meet a potential soul mate; of course it would be total nonsense to suggest that you couldn’t or shouldn’t meet a potential date in such places….perhaps you may choose to find a lovely lady this way
What I am saying to you though is, have a sense of perspective and realise that nightclubs and bars are far more about both sexes not taking themselves too seriously, and in all honesty, is far too noisy and crowded to even hold half a decent conversation!
Also, be mindful that girls are in their most teasing and playful mood in such places and they are often at their most flirty
If you get too serious emotionally, meeting and connecting with a lovely lady you ‘hit it off with’, the chances are higher that she is just having fun, and you could end up disappointed, realising that she may have a boyfriend (maybe even a girlfriend intimately) in the club too!
As long as you maintain your sense of perspective on trying to pursue your dating opportunities in such places, you can let go on having too much expectation on yourself; just have fun and go with the flow!
Questions, comments and feedback welcome!